AI: Don’t Judge a Song by its Mullet

AI: Don’t Judge a Song by its Mullet

Recently, in a whirlwind romance full of pining and obsession and sighs that last just a little too long, I fell in love. With the Avett Brothers.

I recently found out that they’re playing a concert near me in few weeks, and I jumped on the chance. But when I went to the venue website to check out the details, I saw the opening band and was puzzled.

The Nitty Gritty Dirt Band, favorite country supergroup of everyone in my generation’s lame uncle, is opening for The Avett Brothers, favorite neo-folk band of hip, exciting young people who wear skinny jeans and thick-framed glasses without lenses in them. This was puzzling to me. But then, I put on my skeptic hat, strived to cast off my bias, and listened to the Nitty Gritty Dirt Band with fresh ears:

They’re really not so different, musically. Through the lens of my new folk-rock Avett boyfriends, they actually sound pretty good. I just never allowed myself to like them because they’re what my father’s generation likes. Oh, and they have mullets, mustaches, and are nowhere near as dreamy as these guys:



Does this happen to you? What things have you turned up your nose at only to realize your bias was preventing you from truly enjoying it?

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Ashley Hamer (aka Smashley) lives in Chicago where she plays jazz saxophone, writes stuff, and does a lot of skeptickin'. She is currently recovering from being raised in the wooiest city in California and then living in Megachurch Texas, USA. Her tenor saxophone's name is Ladybird.

8 Comments

  1. Disney.

    In my teens I was actively disdainful of their “kids” movies and dumb songs.

    Sometime in university, I realized that most of them were really well made movies with fun songs.

  2. I do this all of the time with music. I’m really damn picky about what I listen to and it’s pretty limiting.
    The funny thing is, I can sing just about any crappy 80′s pop song because that’s what was on the radio when I was growing up. Even though much of it is truly awful, I really enjoy it.
    *sigh*
    Nostalgia…

  3. Recently I had raised a skeptical eyebrow at banjo metalcore. I’m here to tell you that I now unabashedly love Maylene and the Sons of Disaster. (Incidentally, I have Scott Sigler to thank for that.)

    Great post! Thanks, Smashley.

  4. In high school I didn’t just not like most of the popular music; I was aesthetically offended by it. I was convinced western art was dying before my eyes, and that all those pop stars (the ones I didn’t like) should be arrested.

    Most of them, when I hear them again now, are kinda nice. Or at least I understand why they were hits. And some of my musical ‘enemies’ from that time I realize are actually geniuses — even if they’re still not my cup of tea.

    But I’m sorry but Ack I’m sorry but Mr. Bojangles drives me nuts! Aaaaahh!

  5. a decent bit of the stoner rock/metal that I like now I actively hated several years now. But I worked with an awesome group of ppl at a now defunct CD store and they all loooooooooved it. Most of the reason I like it I think is bc it makes me nostalgic for those days.

    The Avett Brothers are one of my absolute favorites and they put on a hell of a show. One of the most high-energy performances I’ve seen, and I’ve been to my fair share of punk shows, back in the day. Enjoy!

  6. I’m in the crowd here, in that I hated 80′s pop with all of my combat boot wearing, spiky haired being, but now I find that a lot of it was way better than I gave it credit for. Duran Duran would be a good example of this, I gave them no time whatsoever in the day and now I think that their stuff is really well crafted pop.

    For a more recent example: Mumford and Sons. I saw them on Later with Jools Holland and was really impressed. But on listening to the album I found that it’s full of subtle Christianity. I really struggled with that because I love their energy, arrangements, instrumentation and song writing so much that I also wanted them to hold the same beliefs as I do. This distress is made even more ironic and idiotic in that I have no problem with loving great pieces of religious classical music, Bach’s mass in B minor for example.

    I think it comes down to self-identification. I despised the bands I did in my youth in part because I had chosen to identify with a particular segment of society. The hair, the cloths and the music were all badges of that identity. Which is not to say I didn’t love the music, I chose my peer group in part because their music spoke to what I saw as my concerns and my place in the world.

    This conflict I feel over Mumford and Sons is, I think, a hangover from that use of music as a tool of self-identity. I’d thought I’d gotten over most of that simplistic tribalism, but I guess not.

  7. I actually hadn’t heard of either of these – so thanks for the recs (loved them both).

    For me, I made base assumptions based on popularity (had a knee-jerk reaction against them). So things like nirvana, friends, seinfeld, etc I didn’t get at first.

  8. In the early 90s, while finishing university and afterwards, I worked in a bookstore and I turned my nose up at any book popularized by ANY tv show (0prah book club I am looking at you), and dismissing anything which was “too popular”. Sigh. Anything which gets people to open a book is a good thing, and some of the books are actually really good and entertaining – it took me years to actually read a Harry Potter book because they couldn’t POSSIBLY be any good if so many people were reading them. Oh – and adults can actually read YA and no one will judge you. I am not sure who I thought I was impressing (my similarly snobbish coworkers?), but yeah, I am over it ;)

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